Sunday, June 26, 2022
2022 June “unconditional love”
RELATIONSHIP by Tony Robbins
5 Disciplines of LOVE
1. Unconditional love and compassion
Put always your lover first, it is not about you, it is about your partner.
Don’t focus on yourself, on what you are not getting … focus on your partner
2. Absolute courage and vulnerability
Tell the truth, open up, “learn to love no matter what”
3. Positive intent
Discipline is an habit, discipline weighs onces, regret (if you don’t have discipline) weighs tons
“I know this woman soul, it is the purest of my life, so no matter what, whatever will happen, I will serve and love this woman, because I know she has positive intent. It looks mean but she scared, it looks vicious but she just freaked out, some thing with me, it looks like he is unconscious hassle but he just doesn’t know, it looks like he doesn’t give a shit but he is just a masculine man and that is what they do … “
It shifts the meaning because there is never a negative intend, there is no blame game, no matter what it looks like.
Whatever she is feeling ultimately is my responsibility, even if I didn’t intent, that’s it. I take responsibility, I am sorry honey.
If you love each other who care who is right and who is wrong.
Always use I (subject): I am sorry if today I have upset you …
Never question intent!
My partner comes first.
Knowing there is a posto e intend, it kills any anger, and upset.
4. Honorable language
This is power in love, adoration an praise, most people don’t use enough.
If you are going to praise your partner you must be specific, not generic.
Be aware of the impact of tour language and your presence, the words will stick in the mind and triggers emotions.
We made a decision:
Never say I hate you
Never say I am going to leave you
Never say F words
If you are committed to a relationship you are all in, banned for life.Never ever threaten to leave.
5. Discipline of giving freedom
forgiving
forgetting
flooding (everything exciting, memorable, framing)